Can you have sex in the three tier system? The government rules if you live apart

Just when you thought the national lockdown was slowing down your sex life, the Government announced a strict new three-tier system, which began on December 2. 

99 per cent of the country are in Tier 2 or Tier 3, meaning, when it comes to sex, things are not about to get better anytime soon. 

Even in Tier 1, you can spend time inside your partner’s home, but you can only stay overnight if they are in your support bubble.  So, we hate to be the one to break this to you- but if your partner lives in a separate household, sex is banned for the time being.

What is happening in the new three-tier-system?

As of December 2nd, a stricter three-tier system resumed. 

Depending on the tier you are in, it puts a ban on socialising in groups of more than six people indoors, encourages people to work from home where they can and continues to enforce a nationwide 11pm curfew. 

Downing Street confirmed that those in established relationships living apart are banned from having sleepovers in all tiers, including Tier 1. Couples in Tier 2 or 3 will only be permitted to meet outdoors if they adhere to the social distance measures.

If you’re not already in an ‘established relationship’ (whatever that may be), the chances are you are staring down the barrel of a sexless few months (unless you’re planning on forging a new and exciting relationship with your housemate, in which case good luck to you). As for those already shacked up with someone, well, at least you can have some fun.

This isn’t the first time that sex has sparked debate over restrictions. Earlier this year, it was made illegal to have sex with someone outside your household, with the rules being put into place from June 1. At the time, anyone caught breaking the law could face having a criminal record – although police officers were not able to enter people’s homes in order to enforce it, according to a Downing Street official.

The Government has also broached the subject of relationships more broadly. On March 24, Dr Jenny Harries said in a Downing Street press conference that now is a good time for fledgling couples to “test” a relationship by moving in together (a risky game indeed).

Under the rules of the three-tier system, government advice stipulates that any contact with people not living in the same household should be conducted while keeping at least two metres apart, and that includes “non-cohabiting partners”, who could pass on the deadly virus if they continued to visit each other. 

Can you have sex during the coronavirus outbreak? 

In general, a couple living together can have sex if they both feel healthy, are not in an at-risk group, and have not come into contact with anyone with symptoms. 

But what about if you’re in an ‘established-relationship’ but don’t live together? 

Currently, the severe restrictions throughout November mean that sex with anybody beyond your household is banned. 

After December 2nd, if the lockdown eases, as it is expected to, then your sex life will depend entirely on where you and your partner live. 

If you are in an ‘established relationship’ you will still be unable to have sex with your partner if you live separately in tiers 2 and 3, but this doesn’t apply to those who already live together. However, Professor Claudia Escourt adds: “I think the key issue is that, as with any transmissible infection, the more of it there is circulating in the population, the more likely we are to come across someone with it and the higher the individual risk of catching it ourselves.

“Numbers of people with Covid are rising again so our individual risk will also go up, whether or not we are having sex.”

She also advises that people should follow the same measures that were in place earlier this year. Speaking previously to The Telegraph in June, she said: “It is safe for people in a household which has been self-isolating for over 14 days to have sex. But remember that every time someone goes out of their household that person has the potential to acquire the virus. You will need to keep resetting the 14 day clock if one of you is in contact with someone with coronavirus or develops symptoms.” 

It’s important to remember that these rules will vary from place to place, once the tier system is reintroduced. 

Meanwhile, household visits are not allowed in Scotland – but couples who don’t live together are exempt. Over in Wales you can form an “extended household” with your partner, which means that you’re allowed to meet up indoors and have sex. 

In August, the Terrence Higgins Trust published advice suggesting people avoid kissing, wear a face covering and choose positions that aren’t face-to-face during sex. The organisation maintains that the safest form of sex is with yourself. 

Indeed, this is a position echoed by health professionals in Canada. Dr Theresa Tam, the country’s Chief Public Health Officer, recommended people don’t kiss, avoid face-to-face closeness and wear a mask during sex to prevent the spread of coronavirus. 

If you are in a group at high risk of becoming seriously unwell, then you should be extra careful with how you approach sex.

Can you have sex if one of you has coronavirus or has come into contact with someone who has?

If you or your partner is exhibiting symptoms, then the chances are sex is going to be the last thing on your mind. A fever and dry cough aren’t exactly aphrodisiacs. 

If you, someone you live with, or someone you’ve had sex with recently has had symptoms of Covid-19 then you should self-isolate for 14 days to prevent further transmissions. This means no physical contact, which obviously includes sex.  

Prof. Estcourt says: “We know that Covid-19 is transmitted most easily between household contacts. Transmission is via droplet spread and surfaces which have been contaminated. 

“The chances are that if you’re in the same household you are probably way more likely to acquire Covid-19 through usual household activities than through sex, because day-to-day contact is happening all the time. 

“However, it would be fair to assume mouth kissing confers a high risk of transmission.  And if someone is self-isolating because they are either exhibiting symptoms or have potentially been exposed to the virus, then they shouldn’t be having sex during the isolation period at all.” 

Is Covid-19 sexually transmissible? 

Dr Carlos E. Rodríguez-Díaz, associate professor of prevention and community health at George Washington University, told The Telegraph: “There is no evidence that Covid-19 can be transmitted via sexual intercourse; either vaginal or anal.

“However, kissing is a very common practice during sex, and the virus can be transmitted via saliva. Therefore, the virus can be transmitted by kissing.”

Can you go on a date with with someone you’re in a relationship with after the lockdown?

After December 2nd, if you are in a relationship with someone who you do not live with, under tier two restrictions, you will still be able to meet outdoors, but are expected to follow social distancing guidelines. But for couples who do live together, or are in a support bubble, nothing changes. 

Therefore dates may have to get creative for those in Tier 2 – outdoor walks, meeting in pub gardens and perhaps an outdoor theatre or music event. 

Being separated from a partner is challenging, acknowledges Dr Sheri Jacobson, clinical director of Harley Therapy: “One of the foundations of a close relationship for many people – not all, but many – is physical closeness,” she says. Losing this physical proximity is “the biggest challenge.”

And being separated during a pandemic poses even greater problems, as “there currently may be more to worry about – hence the need and the longing to be able to connect physically,” says Ammanda Major, relationship counsellor at Relate

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